Sunday, 10 January 2010

Divorce in Islam

Divorce in Islam


There are 3 Types of Divorces in Islam

First type is Talaq E Bidat.

Talaq Talaq Talaq go at the same time


2nd Type is Talaq E Hasan.

Give Talaq and wait for 1 month and then give second and wait and then final 3rd one


3rd Type is Talaq E Ahsan which is best way as explained in Quran

(Surah Al Baqarah Ch 2 Verse 228)

When ever you give Divorce wait for three 3 months or three Menstrual cycles to complete Divorce duration

Unfortunately there is a conflict in umah but there is a Hadis by Hazrat Abbas (RA) (Sahih Muslim Vol 2 Hadis No 3491) says :

(That the pronouncement of three divorces during the life time of Allahs Messenger (PBUH) and that of Abubakar(R.A) and two year of Calaphate of Umar (R.A) was treated as one. But Omer (R.A) said: Verily people have begun to hasten in the matter in which they are required to respite.So if we had imposed this upon the, and he imposed it upon them.)


During Holy prophet (PBUH) life 3 Divorces were considered as one as explained in Quran which is three months process, even in Hazarat Abubakar's (RA) Life it remained same however in Umers Regimes first 2 years it remains the same and then Umer (R.A) after observing the situation , said if some one give Divorce 3 times it is considered as complete divorce.


But if you look in the light of Holy Quran (Surah Al Baqarah Verse 228 – 240) and
(Surah Talaq V 1-7)

Quran says whenever there is a difference of opinion between Husband and Wife, sit together and discuss and try to resolve the issue. If it doesn’t work Allah says in (Surah nisah V 35)

Then get one Arbiter from woman side and one Arbiter from Mans side and try to resolve it, if it don’t get resolved then give divorce
And the best way is to wait for three months if during these three months you (Husband and Wife) come together Alhamdullilah its ok, but if after three months you decide that you cannot stay together... they you are no more husband and wife


(Surah baqrah V 232)
(.... Reference from Dr Zakir Naik Speech.....)

Explained as If that Man (Husband) want to get married with his old Wife don’t stop him, if divorce is happen in the Ehsan Divorce way

He can have Nikah with his old wife with different Mehar. (but this thing can happen 3 times)


But unfortunately not all Muslims don’t adopt Ehsan Procedure of Divorce.

Monday, 13 April 2009

PROPHET MOHAMMAD SAID 1400 BACK

  • Camels will no longer be used as a means of transport;
  • People will ride on saddles that aren't saddles (cars?
  • The distance on earth will become short;
  • Horses will not be used in wars;
* Very tall buildings will be built;

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The disappearance of knowledge and the appearance of ignorance, with much killing;

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Adultery will become widespread, and the drinking of wine will become common;

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The number of men will decrease and the number of women will increase until there are 50 women to be looked after by one man.

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Islam will become worn out like clothes are, until no one will know what fasting, prayer, charity and rituals are;

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Allah will send a disease to fornicators that will have no cure (Aids?);

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People will begin to believe in the stars and reject AL QADAR (THE DIVINE DECREE OF DESTINY);

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Men will pass by people's graves and say: 'Would that I were in his place'; (large amount of sucidal deaths?)

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The Euphrates will uncover a mountain of gold for which people will fight over (the river of Alfurat that lies near Syria );

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Two large groups of people will fight one another, and there will be many casualties; they will both be following the same religion World War II?);

* Approximately 30 DAJJALS will appear, each one claiming to be the messenger of ALLAH;

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Earthquakes will increase; * Time will pass quickly;

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Afflictions will appear;

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Killing will increase;

* Wealth will increase;

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Women will be wearing clothes but not wearing clothes


* THE PROPHET (saw) SAID: 'IF MY UMMAH BEARS 15 TRAITS (QUALITIES), TRIBULATION WILL FOLLOW IT.' (DAY OF JUDGEMENT) SOMEONE ASKED,'WHAT ARE THEY O MESSENGER OF ALLAH?' HE (saw) SAID:

* When any gain is shared out only among the rich, with no benefit to the poor;

* When a trust becomes a means of making profit;

* When paying ZAKKAT becomes a burden;

* When voices are raised in the mosque;

* When the leader of a people is the worst of them; when people treat a man with respect because what he may do;

* When much wine is drunk; red wind or the earth swallow them, or to be transformed into animals.'

* 'IMRAN IBN HUSAYN SAID: 'THE PROPHET (AS) SAID, 'SOME PEOPLE OF THIS UMMAH WILL BE SWALLOWED BY THE EARTH, TRANSFORMED INTO ANIMALS, AND SOME WILL BE BOMBARDED WITH STONES'. ONE OF THE MUSLIMS ASKED, WHEN WILL THAT BE O MESSENGER Of ALLAH?' HE SAID, 'WHEN SINGERS AND MUSICAL INSTRUMENTS WILL BECOME POPULAR, AND MUCH
WINE IS DRUNK.'' THE GREATER SIGNS OF THE HOUR The Quran will disappear in one night, even from the people's hearts, and no Ayah will be left on earth. (Some groups of old people will be left who will say: 'We heard of fathers' saying 'LAILLAHA ILLA ALLAH' so we repeat it);

* The appearance of the MAHDI;

* The appearance of the DAJJAL (Anti Christ); * The appearance of Ya'juj and Ma'juj (biblical Gog and Magog);

* Isa (Jesus) will come during the time of Dajjal;

* The rising of the sun from the west;

* The destruction of the Ka'ba and the recovery of its treasures;

* The smoke.


Pray . May Allah Help us to be his obedient creature and pray for him .